Destination Wedding Planning: Your Ultimate Stress Free Checklist.

Destination weddings are a magical way to celebrate your special day, combining the joy of marriage with the allure of travel. However, planning such a grand affair can feel overwhelming without the right guidance. This comprehensive checklist ensures you leave no stone unturned, from guest invites to the final send-off. Dive in and make your dream wedding a seamless reality!


1. Pre-Wedding Essentials

Guest Invites & RSVPs

  • Confirm your final guest list and RSVP statuses.
  • Share travel and accommodation details with all guests.
  • Provide a detailed itinerary to keep everyone informed.

Transportation

  • Book flights, trains, and local transport for guests.
  • Organize airport or station pick-ups and drop-offs.
  • Schedule shuttles between hotels and venues for all functions.

Packing Essentials

  • Curate outfits and accessories for every function.
  • Include essentials like chargers, extra batteries, and toiletries.
  • Pack an emergency kit with first aid, sewing supplies, and stain removers.

Vendor Coordination

  • Confirm bookings with vendors for decor, catering, photography, and makeup.
  • Share a detailed event itinerary and ensure timely arrivals.

2. Venue & Accommodation

Room Allotment

  • Assign rooms and share details with your guests.
  • Place welcome hampers in rooms, including snacks, the itinerary, and local information.
  • Address special accommodations for elderly guests and children.

Welcome Desk

  • Set up a welcome desk at the hotel to assist guests during check-in.
  • Assign a point-of-contact for queries.

Function Spaces

  • Ensure each event venue is decorated and prepared.
  • Reserve backup indoor spaces for outdoor events in case of bad weather.

3. Event-Specific Arrangements

Day 1: Haldi

  • Decorate with yellow and floral themes.
  • Arrange comfortable, waterproof seating.
  • Prepare Haldi paste and giveaways like towels and flower petals.
  • Organize water activities for post-Haldi fun.

Pool Party

  • Enhance the vibe with poolside decor, inflatables, and themed seating.
  • Provide essentials like towels, sunscreen, and changing areas.
  • Include refreshments, music, and ensure a lifeguard is present.
  • Plan fun poolside games or activities.

Gala Night

  • Go glam with stage decor, lighting, and a seating chart.
  • Set up dinner arrangements and a DJ/band with a sound check.
  • Arrange professional photographers for the night.

Day 2: Mandap Muruhat

  • Prepare the mandap with early morning decor and seating.
  • Organize puja essentials like flowers, diya, and kalash.
  • Allocate space for footwear and personal belongings.

Wedding Ceremony

  • Set up a stunning mandap with fresh floral decor.
  • Plan bride and groom seating with clear guest views.
  • Define entry and exit paths for processions.
  • Offer refreshments for arriving guests.

Reception

  • Create a grand stage with striking decor and lighting.
  • Arrange catering, a dessert table, and a bar area.
  • Set up a dance floor with live music or a DJ.
  • Distribute thank-you gifts to guests.

4. Other Considerations

Food and Catering

  • Finalize menus for all events and conduct tastings if possible.
  • Address dietary restrictions and allergies.

Photography & Videography

  • Confirm the shot list and schedule for every function.
  • Plan for candid and staged photo sessions.

Emergency Backup

  • Arrange for power backups and generators.
  • Set up rainproof options for outdoor events.

Send-Off Arrangements

  • Organize farewell gifts for guests.
  • Schedule transport to the airport or station.

1. Essentials for All Events

  • Decor Vendor
    Essentials: Floral arrangements, lighting, seating, stage setups, aisle decor, backdrops, entrance decor.
    Vendors: Destination wedding planners, local florists, decor companies specialized in weddings (e.g., WedMeGood, ShaadiSaga, or local city-based decorators).
  • Audio-Visual & Lighting Vendor
    Essentials: Sound systems, microphones, lighting effects, projectors (for slideshow or video during the reception).
    Vendors: AV rental companies, DJs with lighting setups, or wedding production teams.
  • Photography & Videography Vendor
    Essentials: Photographer team, videography setup, drone cameras (for aerial shots).
    Vendors: Choose experienced destination wedding photographers (The Wedding Filmer, Stories by Joseph Radhik, etc.).
  • Transportation Vendor
    Essentials: Shuttle services, airport transfers, event-to-venue transport.
    Vendors: Local car rental services, transport aggregators (Ola Outstation, Uber Rentals, or city-specific rental services).
  • Welcome Kit Essentials
    Essentials: Itinerary, snacks, sunscreen, local maps, or hotel information.
    Vendors: Local vendors or online bulk order services (Amazon, Flipkart, or BoxFox for custom welcome kits).

2. Day 1: Haldi

  • Haldi & Floral Decor Vendor
    Essentials: Yellow-themed flowers (marigolds are popular), Haldi trays, water-resistant seating, floral garlands, petal showers.
    Vendors: Local florists or wedding decorators specializing in traditional setups.
  • Catering & Refreshments Vendor
    Essentials: Light refreshments (coconut water, traditional sweets).
    Vendors: Local caterers familiar with traditional cuisine.
  • Entertainment Vendor
    Essentials: Drummers, folk music artists, or a DJ with light music.
    Vendors: Local event musicians or performers (many available through wedding planning platforms).

3. Pool Party

  • Pool Decor Vendor
    Essentials: Inflatable pool floats, sun umbrellas, lounge chairs, poolside decor.
    Vendors: Decor vendors that specialize in pool or beach decor setups.
  • Safety & Pool Essentials
    Essentials: Lifeguard, towels, sunscreen station.
    Vendors: Contact resort staff or hire a certified lifeguard for the event duration.
  • DJ or Music System Vendor
    Essentials: Portable sound system, pool-friendly playlist.
    Vendors: DJs with pool party experience, rental AV companies.
  • Food & Beverages Vendor
    Essentials: Poolside bar, snacks, mocktails, cocktail station.
    Vendors: Event caterers, local bartending services.

4. Gala Night

  • Stage Decor & Seating Vendor
    Essentials: Grand stage setup, floral or fabric backdrop, elegant seating.
    Vendors: Professional decorators or wedding planners.
  • Entertainment Vendor
    Essentials: Band, DJ, dance floor lighting.
    Vendors: Local artists or DJ with wedding entertainment experience.
  • Photography Setup
    Essentials: Photobooth, professional photo backdrop, instant print service.
    Vendors: Many photographers can provide photobooth setups or instant print options.

5. Day 2: Mandap Muruhat

  • Mandap Decor Vendor
    Essentials: Floral mandap setup, seating, traditional decor elements (kalash, garlands).
    Vendors: Traditional wedding decorators with expertise in mandap setups.
  • Puja Vendor
    Essentials: Priest, puja thali, flowers, holy water, essential puja items.
    Vendors: Local pandits or priests with experience in destination wedding rituals.

6. Wedding Ceremony

  • Main Mandap & Aisle Decor Vendor
    Essentials: Aisle flowers, bridal and groom seating, guest seating, entrance arch.
    Vendors: Wedding decorators familiar with traditional and modern setups.
  • Catering & Refreshments Vendor
    Essentials: Complete meal service, water station, refreshment stations for guests arriving.
    Vendors: Wedding caterers, hotel or venue’s catering service.
  • Sound & Live Music Vendor
    Essentials: Traditional music (like shehnai or flute), PA system for announcements.
    Vendors: Local musicians, live wedding music services.

7. Reception

  • Reception Decor Vendor
    Essentials: Grand stage, flower walls, seating arrangement, table decor.
    Vendors: Experienced wedding decorators or florists.
  • Catering & Bar Services Vendor
    Essentials: Multiple-course meal, dessert station, open bar setup.
    Vendors: Wedding caterers with bartending services or tie-ups.
  • Entertainment Vendor
    Essentials: DJ or live band, dance floor setup, stage lighting.
    Vendors: Wedding DJs, live bands, entertainers available through wedding planners.
  • Giveaways & Thank-You Gifts Vendor
    Essentials: Personalized gifts, wedding favors for guests.
    Vendors: Online bulk order services (Etsy, The Wedding Brigade) or local gift vendors.

Essential Vendors for All Events

Decor Vendor
Essentials: Floral arrangements, lighting, seating, stage setups, aisle decor, backdrops, entrance decor.
Vendors: Destination wedding planners, local florists, decor companies specialized in weddings (e.g., WedMeGood, ShaadiSaga, or local city-based decorators).

Audio-Visual & Lighting Vendor
Essentials: Sound systems, microphones, lighting effects, projectors (for slideshow or video during the reception).
Vendors: AV rental companies, DJs with lighting setups, or wedding production teams.

Photography & Videography Vendor
Essentials: Photographer team, videography setup, drone cameras (for aerial shots).
Vendors: Choose experienced destination wedding photographers (The Wedding Filmer, Stories by Joseph Radhik, etc.).

Transportation Vendor
Essentials: Shuttle services, airport transfers, event-to-venue transport.
Vendors: Local car rental services, transport aggregators (Ola Outstation, Uber Rentals, or city-specific rental services).

Welcome Kit Essentials

Essentials: Itinerary, snacks, sunscreen, local maps, or hotel information.

Vendors: Local vendors or online bulk order services (Amazon, Flipkart, or BoxFox for custom welcome kits).


2. Day 1: Haldi

  • Haldi & Floral Decor Vendor
    Essentials: Yellow-themed flowers (marigolds are popular), Haldi trays, water-resistant seating, floral garlands, petal showers.
    Vendors: Local florists or wedding decorators specializing in traditional setups.
  • Catering & Refreshments Vendor
    Essentials: Light refreshments (coconut water, traditional sweets).
    Vendors: Local caterers familiar with traditional cuisine.
  • Entertainment Vendor
    Essentials: Drummers, folk music artists, or a DJ with light music.
    Vendors: Local event musicians or performers (many available through wedding planning platforms).

3. Pool Party

  • Pool Decor Vendor
    Essentials: Inflatable pool floats, sun umbrellas, lounge chairs, poolside decor.
    Vendors: Decor vendors that specialize in pool or beach decor setups.
  • Safety & Pool Essentials
    Essentials: Lifeguard, towels, sunscreen station.
    Vendors: Contact resort staff or hire a certified lifeguard for the event duration.
  • DJ or Music System Vendor
    Essentials: Portable sound system, pool-friendly playlist.
    Vendors: DJs with pool party experience, rental AV companies.
  • Food & Beverages Vendor
    Essentials: Poolside bar, snacks, mocktails, cocktail station.
    Vendors: Event caterers, local bartending services.

4. Gala Night

  • Stage Decor & Seating Vendor
    Essentials: Grand stage setup, floral or fabric backdrop, elegant seating.
    Vendors: Professional decorators or wedding planners.
  • Entertainment Vendor
    Essentials: Band, DJ, dance floor lighting.
    Vendors: Local artists or DJ with wedding entertainment experience.
  • Photography Setup
    Essentials: Photobooth, professional photo backdrop, instant print service.
    Vendors: Many photographers can provide photobooth setups or instant print options.

5. Day 2: Mandap Muruhat

  • Mandap Decor Vendor
    Essentials: Floral mandap setup, seating, traditional decor elements (kalash, garlands).
    Vendors: Traditional wedding decorators with expertise in mandap setups.
  • Puja Vendor
    Essentials: Priest, puja thali, flowers, holy water, essential puja items.
    Vendors: Local pandits or priests with experience in destination wedding rituals.

6. Wedding Ceremony

  • Main Mandap & Aisle Decor Vendor
    Essentials: Aisle flowers, bridal and groom seating, guest seating, entrance arch.
    Vendors: Wedding decorators familiar with traditional and modern setups.
  • Catering & Refreshments Vendor
    Essentials: Complete meal service, water station, refreshment stations for guests arriving.
    Vendors: Wedding caterers, hotel or venue’s catering service.
  • Sound & Live Music Vendor
    Essentials: Traditional music (like shehnai or flute), PA system for announcements.
    Vendors: Local musicians, live wedding music services.

7. Reception

  • Reception Decor Vendor
    Essentials: Grand stage, flower walls, seating arrangement, table decor.
    Vendors: Experienced wedding decorators or florists.
  • Catering & Bar Services Vendor
    Essentials: Multiple-course meal, dessert station, open bar setup.
    Vendors: Wedding caterers with bartending services or tie-ups.
  • Entertainment Vendor
    Essentials: DJ or live band, dance floor setup, stage lighting.
    Vendors: Wedding DJs, live bands, entertainers available through wedding planners.
  • Giveaways & Thank-You Gifts Vendor
    Essentials: Personalized gifts, wedding favors for guests.
    Vendors: Online bulk order services (Etsy, The Wedding Brigade) or local gift vendors.

Other Essential Vendors

  • Makeup & Styling
    Essentials: Bridal makeup artist, hairstylist, makeup artists for family members.
    Vendors: Bridal beauty specialists, destination makeup artists.
  • On-Site Coordinators or Planners
    Essentials: A wedding coordinator or planner to oversee logistics and guest assistance.
    Vendors: Hire a dedicated wedding planner or coordinator, available on platforms like WeddingWire.

Planning a destination wedding is no small feat, but with meticulous preparation and the right team, it becomes a joyous and memorable journey. Assign trusted coordinators to oversee different sections, ensuring the big day goes off without a hitch. With this ultimate checklist, you’re all set to create an unforgettable celebration in your dream destination. Cheers to love, laughter, and happily ever after!